I cannot believe our little girl is getting married! When I look at her I still see my chubby cheeked little baby that was always smiling.
Her fiancé, Tristan, was her high school sweetheart and is everything we could have hoped for in a life partner for our daughter. They met at summer camp when Bailee was trying to set him up with her friend. The more she raved to her friend about how great he was, the more she began to ask herself “Wait, why am I not dating this guy?”
It’s hard to believe they just celebrated their 7 year anniversary!
We have watched Bailee and Tristan grow up together. After graduating from the same high school and going off to different colleges they eventually reunited to graduate from the same college. They have each started successful careers and have supported each other every step of the way.
The big engagement was so much fun! It was full of family and friends, and a moment we will never forget. Thank you Tristan for allowing all of us to be a part of your special moment.
Bailee and Tristan want to share the planning of their big day with all of you and ask for your advice along the way. You can follow my Facebook page for details and to weigh in on some of their wedding planning. Here are a few of the selections they have made so far:
First, who wants to see the ring? Tristan designed this lovely piece with the one and only Sonia Bitton. Tristan worked for months on the design and Sonia added her special touches to make it the ring of Bailee’s dreams. Notice the six pink diamonds on the bezel set to represent the six years they spent together before getting engaged, how sweet is that?
Here is a photo of the lovely industrial style venue of the big day! Its creative, unique and fun, just like the happy couple.
The dress…NO WAY! Bailee won’t allow any sneak peeks at her dress for the big day, but she did suggest we ask all of you to weigh in on helping to pick my dress. The color will be a dark berry shade.
Do you like option A or B? Leave your comment below and remember to follow my Facebook page for more fun wedding updates and to help them plan their big day!
Congrats Bailee and Tristan. We are so excited for the wedding!
It took me 36 years to find the right guy and I still have to pinch myself when I think about the fact that I am actually engaged to be married! Bouncing from state to state, I was always so focused on my career that love was not really something I even thought much about. Sure, I dated here and there and have enough horror stories to fill a novella three times over, but as far as an actual real relationship that just was not in the cards.
When I moved to Alabama I started thinking again about possibly trying to meet someone. I had great friends and a great job, but something was obviously missing in my life. I had just gotten out of a rocky relationship and was not sure I wanted anything too serious to happen (Plot twist-that is always when it DOES seem to happen)
So I did what any other 30 something woman in a small town would do, I went online.
Next came the prospects of various men. Some were too old, some were too young, some lived as far away as India and others were just plain too weird.
I was trying to narrow my search to Atlanta which was just about four hours away from me. I figured that would be the easiest way to meet someone without it being terribly far away.
Sohail messaged me one day, and quite honestly, I didn’t think too much about it. I accepted his request and moved on with my life. True he checked the box as far as living in Atlanta but there were many guys who were messaging me from there and at the time he just seemed to be another one!
But there was something different from the get go. One night after going out with my friends I happened to log on to the dating site and there he was online! He asked if we could Skype and we did. I thought he was cute and funny. We had a great, relaxed conversation and I ended up giving him my phone number. He started texting me after that and I looked forward to hearing from him daily.
We finally arranged to meet and I didn’t think too much of it. I wasn’t nervous in the slightest and I was in the process of moving to a new place so I had a ton going on! Boxes were everywhere and I was scrambling to get everything done in one weekend. I guess that is what happens, right? When you are busy with your life is when life happens to you!
Sohail showed up with flowers and a present. He had driven the four hours from Atlanta and dressed to impress. In the meantime I had thrown on some lipstick and threw on the only clothes I could find that were not in a box. What I noticed before anything was how easy he was to talk to. He had me laughing the entire time. We had a few glasses of wine and got to know each other. He was a Software Developer and seemed like he had a lot of his life together (ladies we all have dated those guys who don’t!).
I could have sat there for hours talking to him but I had moving to do. The poor guy drove back to Atlanta another four hours at the end of our date. From then on we set another meeting and another. He always showed up with flowers and a present and it was always him coming to meet me. I appreciated that he was such a gentleman and I started to learn more about his caring nature. He had that old fashioned way about him where he always opened doors and texted me to make sure I was home safe.
Soon I knew I didn’t want to be dating anyone else. I took my profile down and focused on him. We had the BEST time together. After a few months I decided it was my turn to drive to Atlanta to see his life and he planned the most amazing weekend for us with a stay at a beautiful hotel in Downtown. We started taking weekend getaways together and life was amazing! I felt safe with him and I was falling for him hard.
We had been together only a few months when I was offered the job at Evine. My how crazy life can be?! There I was with a man I could see myself with forever and here was this job I had dreamed about for years. What would I do? I thought long and hard about the decision and knew that I had to move forward with my life. If me and Sohail were going to work then we would find a way to be together. When I finally told him I was moving I braced myself for his reaction. He was silent for several minutes before he said very matter of fact, “Well, we will have to work this out won’t we? Because I can’t be without you.”
Just what I needed to hear.
After I moved I worried so much about our connection staying strong and it has beyond my wildest expectations. He came to see me in Minnesota several times and eventually even met my family!
We decided to take a magical cruise vacation together and to my complete and utter shock he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him!
I will never forget the date: May 21st!
Now we are planning a wedding and Sohail is moving to Minnesota next summer. I never would have thought my life could have gone in this direction. I truly thought for many years that I would never find someone to spend my life with, but life always seems to surprise us, doesn’t it!
Life may not happen how you thought it would but it always seems to happen just how it should.